Yea yea I failed again… But I’ve gained something priceless…

Yes I failed myself during the past week about weight control.

I’ve gained almost all the weight I’ve lost as I spent my days in bed at home, sick, with toothache, with antibiotics + probiotics, oversleeping, some crying for hairloss due to alopecia areata, some victimizing myself etc etc.

Candida of course is back again, I did everything I could but the antibiotics won.

So, where am I? I am as sick as the first day when I started blogging but something is different now. I am not as helpless as in the first day which was about 20 days ago.

Everything is as shitty as it was, but I am less helpless.

What has been changed in less than a month about me?

YOU!

I’ve not been changed that much but now I have an audience, followers who support me, people who care for me, take some of their precious time to read this. As more of you are added in my life, I became less helpless and grew stronger towards the setbacks and obstacles.

I have more trust in myself now although I failed again in some of my projects. They will get better. I am sure of that.

Because YOU are increasing in my life and YOU give me this motivation.

Thank you dear reader,

You cannot imagine, by just reading this, how helpful you are to change someone’s life.

Like you’ve just done right now 🙂

Love

Alex

MOST common New year resolutions of bloggers: Blog more !

I’ve been reading New Year’s resolutions for the last 2 days and here are my observations:

Most common New Year Resolutions and interesting commonalities among resolvers:

1. Blogging more/every day/consistently etc.

Almost every blogger have that in their lists.

2. Weightloss

Interesting that most of the resolvers did not decide how much to lose. Therefore it is a wish, not a goal.

3. Drinking more water

JUST WATER NO FUN-NO SUCCESS FEELING

This is a habit to be developed. Try doing it for 1 month and there: You have a new habit. It is neither challenging nor fun. Therefore I don’t think this will work for anyone as a resolution because developing this as a habit will not make a person feel successful.

FUN + WATER

A goal should be challenging and fun that you stick to it. Read more about goals vs wishes

FUN + WATER + SUCCESS because girls are looking 🙂

4. Eating healthy

Most of the resolvers admit that they ate lots of junk and got drunk on New Year’s Eve.

5. Finishing school/graduation etc.

6. Fitness/jogging/sports

I will run all year!

The bloggers in this group are very specific about their goals in miles/day or miliseconds.

7. Finishing “Once started” projects, mostly being postponed to 2015 from 2014 or earlier.

Sometimes giving up is a good decision. I’ve even made that a goal/project 🙂

I recommend giving up rather than feeling failed all the time. Read more about giving up as a goal itself.

8. Reading

I realized that most of the bloggers who wrote this as a resolution are also happen to be book buying addicts like me, which lead them another resolution “Buy less books, first read what you already bought” I loved this. Since I have the same addiction, this is how I stopped it: Blogging more. So this leads to the most common resolution 🙂

Please don’t get me wrong. I just wanted to add some humor 🙂

I really love reading blogs, please keep writing…

Alex