I decided to be alone this year…

I do not know why but men have been quite interested in me recently. I do not even feel beautiful that much these days. Within this last week (after my disasterous date experience) quite a few people around me have been constantly calling, asking me out etc. I told them very honestly that I want something for the rest of my life and I am done with dating. I want to get settled down when I feel sure of someone.

relax - CopySo I have kept my distance towards them and this honesty really worked fine for me. Men started to act more respectful. I told them that we were friends, they do not owe me any promises and they can do whatever they want with their lives. They started to call me more?!?!

I really do not understand men.

I do not understand the women who made them this way either.

I just want a peaceful life with myself this year. It will be my 3rd year alone and I have no room for disappointments. So, decided to keep my distance. First, I want a trustful friendship, maybe later, in time, it will grow as a relationship. If it won’t I would not be crying.

So, let’s get to business and projects 🙂 No men, no cry 🙂



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Alex - Project Lady

35 year old woman who has hit the rock bottom tryin to get up again and reach her 35 dreams I am a psychologist who suffers from major depression and severe fibromyalgia. It was all about career to me. But today, I have no job, no husband, no kids. Alone. And, I want to change my fucking life.

15 thoughts on “I decided to be alone this year…”

  1. Good for you. I’ve sworn off men. I had a bad pseudo-divorce about six months ago. I don’t understand men either, except fictional men, maybe. Btw, women don’t make them that way. They come that way. And it’s a lot of hard work trying to fix them. Just set your bar really high and never lower it: not an inch.

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      1. I so agree. haha. There are some out there, and if there are, I hope you find one. I’m done. People say I’ll change my mind, but I’m happy living with my sister and our cats–who luckily get along.

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      1. Yeah, but you can raise a boy right and he becomes an awful man. A lot of environmental factors step in when they start going to school–not to mention what they learn from their dads. Dads should take some heat. My brothers turned out differently despite being raised right by my mom. The difference: my little brother had a bad set of friends and he spent time with our dad. My older brother had a nice set a friends and he spent little time with my dad.

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      2. Genes are also important as they influence people’s choices a lot. This can explain why brothers chose different environments to spend their times in the first place. So, life is not our choice totally. However, we can choose against our genes if we can use more neurons rather than hormones :)))

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  2. It is good idea of keeping distance, butdon’t pla n anything like “no man this year”. Life bringing us a lot surprises and I hope you will be nicely surprised before December. ❤ Brygida

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