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January 29, 2015

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I decided to be alone this year…

by Alex - Project Lady

I do not know why but men have been quite interested in me recently. I do not even feel beautiful that much these days. Within this last week (after my disasterous date experience) quite a few people around me have been constantly calling, asking me out etc. I told them very honestly that I want something for the rest of my life and I am done with dating. I want to get settled down when I feel sure of someone.

relax - CopySo I have kept my distance towards them and this honesty really worked fine for me. Men started to act more respectful. I told them that we were friends, they do not owe me any promises and they can do whatever they want with their lives. They started to call me more?!?!

I really do not understand men.

I do not understand the women who made them this way either.

I just want a peaceful life with myself this year. It will be my 3rd year alone and I have no room for disappointments. So, decided to keep my distance. First, I want a trustful friendship, maybe later, in time, it will grow as a relationship. If it won’t I would not be crying.

So, let’s get to business and projects 🙂 No men, no cry 🙂

Love,

Alex

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  1. Jan 29 2015

    Good for you. I’ve sworn off men. I had a bad pseudo-divorce about six months ago. I don’t understand men either, except fictional men, maybe. Btw, women don’t make them that way. They come that way. And it’s a lot of hard work trying to fix them. Just set your bar really high and never lower it: not an inch.

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    • Jan 29 2015

      🙂 being alone is better than wasting time while trying to fix them. I want an already fixed one 🙂

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      • Jan 29 2015

        Yes, or one that was never broken.

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      • Jan 29 2015

        :)) ı don’t think there is one like that suitable for our age 🙂

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      • Jan 30 2015

        I so agree. haha. There are some out there, and if there are, I hope you find one. I’m done. People say I’ll change my mind, but I’m happy living with my sister and our cats–who luckily get along.

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      • Jan 30 2015

        🙂 It comes when least expected 🙂

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    • Jan 29 2015

      But the vast majority of men are raised by women.

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      • Jan 29 2015

        🙂 exactly

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      • Jan 30 2015

        Yeah, but you can raise a boy right and he becomes an awful man. A lot of environmental factors step in when they start going to school–not to mention what they learn from their dads. Dads should take some heat. My brothers turned out differently despite being raised right by my mom. The difference: my little brother had a bad set of friends and he spent time with our dad. My older brother had a nice set a friends and he spent little time with my dad.

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      • Jan 31 2015

        Genes are also important as they influence people’s choices a lot. This can explain why brothers chose different environments to spend their times in the first place. So, life is not our choice totally. However, we can choose against our genes if we can use more neurons rather than hormones :)))

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      • Jan 31 2015

        Haha so true. I love that last part.

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      • Jan 31 2015

        🙂 I love you

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      • Jan 31 2015

        : )

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  2. BK
    Jan 30 2015

    It is good idea of keeping distance, butdon’t pla n anything like “no man this year”. Life bringing us a lot surprises and I hope you will be nicely surprised before December. ❤ Brygida

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    • Jan 30 2015

      :)) you are right but I’ve broken so many times so I want to be very careful this time 🙂

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